Compassionate End-of-Life Options - What Pet Parents Need to Know
The hardest part of having pets is that we inevitably outlive them. A compassionate and dignified end of life (EOL) is how we can repay them for the loyalty, love, and companionship they give us.
However, there’s no one right way to proceed. The right solution for you and your pet depends on your beliefs and circumstances. Knowing your options will make it easier for everyone when the time comes to say goodbye.
Signs of EOL
It can be difficult to know or acknowledge when a beloved pet approaches EOL. If you answer yes to any of the following questions, it's likely time to discuss EOL options with your vet.
Is your pet in unmanageable pain?
Is your pet unable to eat independently?
Is your pet unable to perform their ablutions independently?
Is your pet hiding or avoiding interaction with others?
Has your pet stopped taking pleasure in the activities they used to enjoy?
If you struggle to answer these questions immediately, keep a daily diary for a few weeks.
Euthanasia
Many pet owners opt to end their pet's suffering through euthanasia by lethal injection. Your vet is trained to administer such injections humanely and gently, and many are willing to come to your home. Your pet won't be aware of their EOL, and the procedure will be over in less than a minute.
Euthanasia is often the most cost-effective and practical option for chronically ill or old animals. And it will save you and your pet the trauma of a slow and uncomfortable death. However, research indicates that many pet parents experience guilt and regret afterward. So, give yourself and your family time to consider the decision thoroughly.
Hospice - EOL Care at Home
Pet hospice, or palliative care, is another option for terminally ill pets. Here, the pet parents choose to care for the dying pet at home. They ensure the pet’s last days are comfortable and pleasant. It can involve significant expense and require round-the-clock care. So, it is not a decision to take lightly.
When caring for a chronically ill or aged pet at home, there are several ways to make their final days more comfortable.
Medication
Ensure you follow your vet's instructions for any medication your pet requires. And if your pet is resistant to taking their meds, discuss this with your vet. There may be more palatable alternatives or different ways to administer them. Try to remain calm so your pet doesn't pick up on your anxiety.
Pain Management
In addition to any pain meds, you may be able to relieve aches and pains through gentle massaging, heating pads, and extra bedding. Make sure to check for self-induced trauma, such as excessive chewing.
Environment
Keep the environment cool, well-ventilated, and safe from dangers like open swimming pools, electrical wires, and other animals if they’re aggressive.
Hygiene
Animals generally prefer to keep themselves and their sleeping spaces clean. Manage incontinence with diapers or puppy training pads. When there are accidents, try to clean it immediately and reassure your pet. You may also need to take over their personal grooming. At all times, be gentle and use cleaning products approved for animal use.
Mobility
Harnesses, wheelchairs, and slings may be necessary to help your pet move comfortably. Ensure their immediate environment is free of obstacles, that their litter box and drinking water are easily accessible, and that the flooring is non-slip.
Nutrition and Feeding
Easily consumed and digested specialized food designed to meet the specific nutritional requirements of elderly and ailing pets will be beneficial. Discuss your pet's requirements with your vet, including what treats you can use to tempt them into eating when their appetite wanes. Remember, food and water intake will naturally reduce as the end nears.
Socialization
Animals are social creatures, so don’t isolate an ill or elderly pet. But if there are other pets in the house, keep an eye out for changes in the pack hierarchy that may distress or endanger your EOL pet.
Emotional Wellbeing
Include your pet in low-key family interactions and watch out for signs of stress, depression, or withdrawal.
What Happens to the Body?
Whether your pet's EOL occurs at home or the vet's clinic, it's essential to make a decision regarding the disposition of their body. Several services arrange for the collection and cremation of the remains, but it's important to decide in advance if you prefer to retain the ashes, which would require a private cremation.
Depending on local laws, you may be permitted to bury the body on your property. However, burying pets on public grounds or disposing of the body through regular waste management is generally illegal. Contact your local sanitation department to make arrangements if you just want the body removed.